GI Appointment

Tristan has his second GI appointment in 2 weeks. The good new? He gained 11 oz in the two weeks! The G-tube talk has been officially tabled....for at least 3 more weeks. We'll return to the GI office the last week of January to do another weight check. We are so happy with this progress! Tristan's oral feeding is getting better with more practice. It's still at the beginning phase but the volume of food is getting higher. Instead of getting about 5-6 macaroni noodles down in one sitting, we are seeing 12-16! That is more than double from 3 weeks ago. 


His lack of talking is still an issue. He was tested a couple weeks ago and it was determined he has a true delay. We will start Speech Therapy for talking soon (not just for eating). 


Pray the positive progress continues. 


We will update about the sedated ECHO on January 17th.


(BTW--the nice bruise you see on the head is from him running into our living room end table).

Happy New Year

Gene and Tristan before church service this morning.

It's been a long time since I last updated the Blog. Right after Thanksgiving, Tristan developed a horrible cold that lasted 2 weeks. We then had a lovely visit from Ann's twin sister and sons (Alex, Isaac, and Evan). The night they left, Tristan started vomiting from a viral bug. By Wednesday evening both Ann and Gene caught it too. Thursday morning we were headed to the ER with Tristan due to his lethargy and not acting like himself. After a 3 day hospital admission, Tristan is back to 100%.  The follow up appointments after a hospitalization stay included a trip to the pediatrician, GI doctor, and the cardiologist. Everyone is concerned about Tristan's lack or slow of weight gain. The early talks of a G-tube or some other feeding tube has been broached. We will see the GI doctor again this Thursday to look at Tristan weight. The cardiologist wants a sedated ECHO to get a good look at Tristan's heart. We are scheduled for that on January 17th at 0700 at St. Mary's Hospital. The EKG at the office showed a strange/different PR interval. Tristan's cardiologist is concerned it shows the beginning signs of SVT (Supraventricular Tachycardia). His heart COULD have created a new electrical pathway, so the cardiologist is looking at a possible WPW Syndrome (Wolff-Parkinson-White Syndrome). The good news is that Tristan does not appear to show any signs of tachycardia or WPW. It all could just be a blip on the small EKG strip that was taken at the office; especially since the QRS does not appear abnormal. The sedated ECHO and the 12 lead EKG on 1/17 will give us a more definitive answer. 


Otherwise.....Tristan looks good. He is finally eating more solid foods. He is slowly but surely mastering the whole chew and swallow sequence. It's not great, but it is a whole lot better. The gagging and vomiting at the dinner table has lessened greatly. At most meals, he no longer does it all. The switched seemed to happen on Christmas Eve. All of the sudden he seem to use his teeth to break down his food and swallow. What a FANTASTIC Christmas gift to us!! The hard part is finding foods that are fairly easy to chew and swallow and also has a lot of calories in it! Now, how do we cook high calorie foods without us gaining the weight with him???!!!


We will update what the GI doc says this coming Thursday. We hope Tristan's oral intake of solid foods picks up and he will be able to avoid the whole G-tube talk.

Many blessings to your 2012 year. We pray the coming year is full for joy, love, peace, health and happiness for all of you!

Happy Thanksgiving

As Thanksgiving approaches this Thursday, we want to take time out to wish everyone a wonderful (and safe) Thanksgiving. We have so many things to be thankful for : Family, Friends, Jobs, Health...to just name a few. But most of all, we are thankful for a loving God who gave us His only son. Without Jesus, we would have nothing to be truly thankful for. 

Happy Thanksgiving from our family to yours 

Tristan's Hand 18 months old

The Christmas Season....

Tristan seeing the Christmas Tree 2011

Tristan's First Christmas 2010

I know that we said we would post a home movie of Tristan eating next....and I assure you, it is coming, but tonight we started to put our Christmas tree up. It is not completely decorated yet, but it's  beginning to look like Christmas.  


Amazing the difference in a child in one year. I see Tristan in the Exersaucer and I can barely remember that little guy.  So much growing and learning with a child this age. I am so thankful for all the pictures and videos we have of him. I love seeing the world through his eyes: the wonderment of everything around him. 

Let's Eat!

This past Monday night we arrived home from Texas around 10 p.m. By the time we got everything brought into the house and Tristan ready for bed it was around 11:30 p.m. Our night was short as we had an appointment lined up for the Oral Feeding Program. After two months of waiting there was finally an opening. The appointment was at 9 a.m. and with an over an hour drive down south, we left at 7:15 a.m. This was just an hour evaluation to decide what kind of plan is needed. Taylor, the therapist was very nice and knowledgable. We were given lots of "do this, not that" and instructed to praise when Tristan puts anything close to his mouth and turn away from him when he attempts to push the spoon away. We were given a list of oral stimulation toys to buy and approx 50 pages of ready material. She originally wanted us to come back twice a week but when she realized we were from Port Saint Lucie, she changed it to once a week due to the distance. 


Tuesday evening, Tristan started picking up small Gerber puffs and putting them in his mouth to eat. Even as recent as 4 months ago, we took these puffs and broke them into 3 pieces and placed them in his mouth. Something as small and dissolvable as the broken puff made Tristan gag. Tuesday evening he picked them up whole all by himself and ate them. Each puff took 1-2 minutes for him to gum it, but it was a HUGE step. 


Wednesday evening he ate two Gerber noodles (look like cheese puffs) from our hands. We put it to his mouth and he would bit off a piece and gum it. Tristan still does not understand the concept of chewing. We are busy practicing that with chew toys and stimulation exercises. 


Tonight, Tristan sat at the dinner table (in his high chair) for approx. 35-40 minutes and smashed and ate a baked potato. He only got about 1/10 of the potato in his mouth but he did it all by himself AND he did not gag or vomit. Once again, A BIG BIG change. We are so ecstatic! Baby steps but positive baby steps. We know a child sitting in his high chair eating fist full of pizza, pasta, and p,b&j is FAR off......but we can at least see there is hope.


Here's to hoping Tristan has turned a corner!


Next blog will be a picture of Tristan with a mouth full of food (we hope).

God Bless Texas

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We just got home from a trip to Texas to visit Gene's side of the family. This was the first time some of Aunts, Uncles and cousins got to met Tristan. It was a busy but fun filled time which included a Missouri vs Texas A&M football game (Hooray for Mizzou) and Gene  got to preach at his home congregation and participate in the new building/church dedication service. Tristan dressed up as a Chick-Fil-A cow in honor of his Aunt Kathleen. All in all it was a wonder trip and we are so glad we got to see so many loved ones.

Playing in Granny Johnson's kitchen

(notice how Tristan crawls and his talented behind-the-back throw)

Remembering a friend

Tom and Carol Coffman with Tristan 6 days post Norwood Procedure

This past Wednesday morning the gates of heaven flew open and our friend and brother in Christ, Tom was taken Home. After three years of battling cancer, God in his infinite wisdom and control decided that Tom's suffering needed to end. Through the suffering and death of God's own son, Jesus, Tom was called "Righteous" and was welcomed to the place that all the saints before us have gone...where the Angels sing, "Holy, Holy, Holy Lord God Almighty, who was and is and is to come!". 

My first memory of Tom is his voice. Call Day informed us we were heading to Grace Lutheran Church in Port St. Lucie, FL. We had already received several phone calls from various members and leaders of the congregation and we were busy planning our move from St. Louis to Florida. Gene was at Concordia Publishing House (CPH) working his part time job for LWML in their shipping/stocking department. The phone rang with the caller ID showing it was a Florida area code. It was Tom. He asked to speak to Gene, which I promptly answered that he was not there. Tom introduced himself as a member and Elder of Grace. The conversation lasted all of around 4 minutes and ended with me giving him Gene's cell phone number. I quickly got off the phone and called Gene to forewarn him that a phone call would be coming from an elder at Grace. I declared to Gene, "I just got off the phone with the nicest person! Extremely friendly and nice!". Friendly and nice....such an understatement. 


Above is a picture of Tom and his wife, Carol visiting Tristan. They made the long 2 hour trip down to meet Tristan 6 days after his 1st surgery. Some day Tristan will look through his photo album from that time period. Upon seeing this picture he will ask me who the man in the picture is......and I am going to tell Tristan that Tom was a man who loved Jesus, loved his wife and son, and was a great friend to us. A man with great character and integrity. A man who could sing a song at the end of a church service and have the members leave crying because how beautifully it was sung. A man who would come up to church and quietly clean or fix something without fanfare or praise. A man, who despite fighting and suffering from cancer found time to pray for you. And even though you will have no memory of Tom, I am thankful he was able to meet you.


There are many other memories I have of Tom, but if I named them all this blog would be a hundred pages long. The most important thing to take away is that the memories are fond.  


It was my honor and privilege to have known Tom.  For having known him, I am a better person. He will be greatly missed by this family.


Yes, we will all see Tom again..... And what a glorious day that will be. 


Amen.